Today we took part in the Challenge Course at Haffenreffer
Estate. When we first arrived we began by going over safety rules for when we
were doing activities and for the possibility of contracting ticks. Then we
were split up into groups, my group leaders were Ashley and Johas.

I cannot recall the name of our first activity but it
started off with laying down four colored handkerchiefs on the floor. Ashley
then chose a code that arranged 4 out of the 11 girls with one color our goal
was to create the correct code using logic, trial and error. We kept on trying different
combinations until we got to 3 correct people on their respective colors after
trying everyone in our group we found that none of the girls where correct. We
then realized that no one considered Johas as a possible candidate but he was
our missing person. We learned not to assume that someone was not in a game
because of who they are.

Trust falls were next on the list. We began by learning the
correct way for a spotter to stand. Dominate leg forward with the other perpendicular
to the dominate leg as well as keeping our palms from turning into claws. Next
we learned what to do as a faller, the start callouts and how to keep our hand
so no one would get hurt. I partnered up with Lauren who I had not had an
opportunity to get to speak with. The experience was really fun allowing Lauren
and I to learn that we have many things in common. Pattern up with someone that
one has not had the chance to become comfortable with makes the whole situation
greater because there is more of a reason to trust them. After individual trust
fall we all became a small circle with one person in the middle and they would
fall into the circle and make their way around. This was really cool because it
felt like you were floating.

After lunch we headed out into the woods where we found our
first task involved a giant seesaw made out of wood. Our goals were to balance
it while in a line arranged by our age and then by group two groups without the
ability to speak the other group. The activity was hard because we have so many
who want to become the leader so all the voices are going on at once while the
ideas that could work are overlooked. The next part of the challenge was to
switch side with the other group without letting the seesaw touch the floor. With
this one we were not able to finish do to time restraints.
Personally the last activity was difficult not on the actual
physical aspect but more on an emotional level. The words “who is heavier” and “who
weighs more” really had an impact on me. Especially at one point someone asked “who
was heavier” and then someone asked one of the girls and me to step up it really
made me self-conscious. I also heard other girls saying that they were not
comfortable in disclosing weight and when the issue was brought up I believe
Ashley handled it very well to make sure everyone felt safe and comfortable.
The challenge course overall was not a physical challenge but
more of a challenge on the mind. I say this because it really took a second to
look back and think how we are going to handle this situation. As well as
making sure that everyone’s thoughts were being heard and they were given a
chance, if wanted, to be a leader. But most importantly we learned that we need
to think of how different things that are said can hurt someone else even if
they don’t hurt us personally.
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